Anger Issues of Girlfriend : How to Survive?

Hie folks,

Subrajit this side with some survival tips for y'all to survive a relationship in which your partner has more anger issues than their age. Sarcastically, if I had a bypass tool, I would have bypass all those moments where our partners get angry with us. As someone who is in a relationship, I know how hard it is to get away from these inevitable moments. It often happens and it is very true that managing anger in a relationship can be a real problem, especially if your girlfriend gets upset or easily frustrated. 

It only takes a shift in power and the angrier party to put immense pressure that weakens even solid relationships. However, understanding the main issue can help you build a healthy relationship. 

Here are some survival tips for you to handle her anger issues with ease :

Get ready to say Sorry for nothing. Before we understand what's the main cause of her anger, send her a cute sorry. Alright, now we will discuss some actual tips. Before you get angry and wish to scold her or before you start defending yourself try to figure out why she is angry. The main emotions that people link to anger includes; pain, pressure, feeling vulnerable or concerned.

Literally her (Pookie)

Stay calm and don't get angry. I mean it's pretty obvious to get angry when someone is neither listening to you nor talking to you. Remember soldier, she is a Pookie. You're technically not allowed to get angry on her.

Communicate but on the RIGHT TIME. You may ask why did I capitalize the term right time, basically right time refers to when emotions are running high, it’s not the best time to address the issue. There's a saying that goes, "Many men, many minds". Remember fellas, all the people on earth doesn't share same mentality. 


As in my case, I'm someone who prefer communicating and fixing issues right when they occur. On the contrary my girl doesn't like talking/communicating her issues/why she is angry right when it occurs. She rather prefers her own sanity. She will discuss after her anger lessens a bit. So, you should keep this RIGHT TIME theory in your mind while communicating.

Bonus Tip : Girls these days wont even communicate about why she is angry. If you dont keep her asking what happened, her anger will go skyrocket. So, whether if she likes or not, keep saying sorry. 👆🤓

(click on the photo for a song that you can send to her)

Well the last thing you can do is get her to a psychiatrist. Maybe she needs professional help rather than yours. Dealing with someone who has anger issues can take an emotional toll on you as well. It’s important to look after your own mental and emotional well-being. Find time to self care.

Although love and connections require effort dedication, there are times that turn into unhealthy and toxic ones. If your partner goes beyond using anger to become emotionally abusive, manipulative, it should distance yourself from her for a while to protect yourself. (ironically)

Healthy relationship is all about mutual respect, understanding. If anger always hampers, it might be high time to find out if the relationship is beneficial or healthy for both of you.

Signing off..


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